Wednesday, October 19, 2005
Is it rude to talk about someone to someone else when the person you are talking about is right in front of you?Do people not find that annoying,maybe even bordering on infuriating?I have no idea why but I do find this very frustrating.I mean,why should you talk about me when I am right in front of you?If you ARE going to amuse yourself by discussing topics concerning myself could you not be more discreet about it?Maybe you were being frank or something but the least you could have done was to keep your voices a few decibels lower because I could hear you loud and clear.Yeah,maybe you were not insulting me or anything but a comment IS a comment after all.If you meant it as a joke or something sure,I could have taken it well.Hell,I might even laugh with you but you were dead serious when you were dicussing it...

I admit that I am rather sensitive about what people perceive of me but really,why do I feel like the bad guy?You talk about me right under my nose albeit loudly enough for me to hear and you say that I am defensive because all I said was "Why would I bother that I am less prone to opening up?"?Why should I entertain you by letting you get off telling me what I am and am not?There is something to call that...hmm...what is it...Oh yes,COMMON COURTESY!!Yes,that would be the term.COMMON COURTESY!!You talk about me as if I was not there and you even call me defensive??It sounds like you were trying to draw me out into the open and shoot me dead on the forehead.Congratulations butthead,you DID IT!!My opinion of you has changed quite a bit here and there sometimes and I have to admit,in some instances you displayed qualities I did not find very endearing,but now that it has reached that level,I doubt it is ever going to change again.Maybe I am being unreasonable,but put yourself in my shoes,look me in the eye and say that you would not find it in the least bit discomforting.
Jin Han 12:04 AM

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Jin loves brownies, cookies and cake.
Jin has never been anywhere further than Australia.
Jin could never stop being a sadistic, sarcastic meanie.
Jin is also the opposite of everything said one line up when the need arises.
Jin would rather have a desktop rather than a laptop.
Jin has an obsessive, compulsive need to ramble, blabber and regurgitate all manner of nonsense.
Jin hates being ignored by the people he loves.
Jin hates being alone most of the time.
Jin hates reflecting about his actions. It's taxing.
Jin has a habit of thinking too much.
Jin often doesn't see the glass as half-empty or half-full.He just sees the glass.
To some, Jin is weird; to others, Jin is even weirder.
Jin wants nothing more than to be happy. Rich would be a big plus though.
Jin is pretty tired of referring himself in the third person's perspective.

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