| Sunday, August 14, 2005 |
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what do guys want in a girl?what do girls want in a guy?those two are probably the most asked questions in any friendster messageboard...which gets really boring most of the time...everything in it seems like a cliched way of buttering up people and whatnot...i think it is silly and rather pointless...they make it sound like it's a job criteria or something especially when it is most definitely not...i mean in my honest opinion i feel that what you want most in a partner is their love and compassion...nothing else...u won't want them for the perfume they wear(because seriously how many girls/women are likely to wear the same brand of perfume?) or the shampoo they use(ditto)...you won't want them for the way they fall into your arms(which almost any girl can accomplish with little effort) or the way they lean their heads against your shoulder(again ditto)...most of those..."required traits" are trivial and silly...sure we want all of that but what do we really want?for me i'd rather have acceptance,devotion and attention...i would like a girl who would accept me for me and nothing else...to be able to treat all my imperfections or faults as if they were strengths...maybe even disregard them completely...i also want to see devotion...i would like a partner to have as much devotion to me as i would have to her...what i hold the most disdain for is always a one-sided affair where you're not on the receiving end when you're the one doing all the giving...i also want attention from my partner...when i'm talking to them i want nothing else but their unabated focus...i would very much appreciate two way conversations in which both parties say around the same amount of words and bring up the same amount of topics et cetera.... sounds like a awful lot i know but hey...it's what i would want in a girl.selfish as it may sound i just don't really care...i'm sure any of you would be selfish if you're talking about a being in a relationship whether long-term or short...the thought just came to mind whilst i was studying so i decided to articulate it into words...it's just an opinion really... |
| Jin Han 1:08 AM |
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Jin loves brownies, cookies and cake. Jin has never been anywhere further than Australia. Jin could never stop being a sadistic, sarcastic meanie. Jin is also the opposite of everything said one line up when the need arises. Jin would rather have a desktop rather than a laptop. Jin has an obsessive, compulsive need to ramble, blabber and regurgitate all manner of nonsense. Jin hates being ignored by the people he loves. Jin hates being alone most of the time. Jin hates reflecting about his actions. It's taxing. Jin has a habit of thinking too much. Jin often doesn't see the glass as half-empty or half-full.He just sees the glass. To some, Jin is weird; to others, Jin is even weirder. Jin wants nothing more than to be happy. Rich would be a big plus though. Jin is pretty tired of referring himself in the third person's perspective. |
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Being apart from my sayang. Seeing animals get tortured. Seeing people get hurt. Losing what's important to me. Sluggish internet connections. Bittergourds and zombies. |
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