| Tuesday, May 31, 2005 |
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i think the things people say about love are just silly...almost every day i receive these chain letters about how love feels like and other nonsense...frankly speaking i do not think an ounce of it is true at all...all this talk about how it is when you are in love seems a bit too good to be true...sure the hopeless romantic within each and every one of us want to believe that but how many of those things actually are true?i think love for everyone is different...different people have different perspectives of love and how they articulate their emotions...in fact some do not even express them at all,or at least remains recondite within themselves..when it comes down to it love is not just a feeling...because if it is,it would never last..passion and lust never does nor do the relationships based on those emotions...i think love is more of an act or a will rather than a feeling...sure we ent up becoming attracted to someone but for how long?hitherto the percentage of long-lasting relationships based on attraction is probably 20% at most...we have to make things work and make due with what we have if we are to keep a long-term relationship...no wonder there are so many broken hearted people out there...it is because they fail to recognise that the will to maintain a relationship poses a more significant role rather than the emotions involved...that's what i think but it might very well be an excuse for me to keep holding on to a useless hope...i'd rather love her than any other person in the world...but it really doesn't matter how i feel because in spite of my strong feelings for her it will never be reciprocated...sometimes i feel really helpless because i can do nothing to stem the tide of sadness within myself...it would be really nice to just wake up one day and think of her,feeling no pain,or happiness at all...man that would be a great feeling indeed...then again...waking up and thinking of her and feeling happy would actually be a welcome respite as well...but i'm getting too ahead of myself here... |
| Jin Han 12:31 AM |
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Jin loves brownies, cookies and cake. Jin has never been anywhere further than Australia. Jin could never stop being a sadistic, sarcastic meanie. Jin is also the opposite of everything said one line up when the need arises. Jin would rather have a desktop rather than a laptop. Jin has an obsessive, compulsive need to ramble, blabber and regurgitate all manner of nonsense. Jin hates being ignored by the people he loves. Jin hates being alone most of the time. Jin hates reflecting about his actions. It's taxing. Jin has a habit of thinking too much. Jin often doesn't see the glass as half-empty or half-full.He just sees the glass. To some, Jin is weird; to others, Jin is even weirder. Jin wants nothing more than to be happy. Rich would be a big plus though. Jin is pretty tired of referring himself in the third person's perspective. |
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Being apart from my sayang. Seeing animals get tortured. Seeing people get hurt. Losing what's important to me. Sluggish internet connections. Bittergourds and zombies. |
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